You Don't Know Me

So, as I was reading this last night (not so much the post, but the comments) I really got to thinking about lots of things, blogging, food, obesity, political correctness...etc.

Blogging:
a. Obviously everyone who blogs recognizes that by posting on the internet, people will see what they write, and that not everyone will agree with them. If they aren't willing to accept that, then they shouldn't blog. I think most bloggers get that.

b. It's a strange "society" we've created for ourselves here on the internet. If you read someones blog long enough, you feel like you know them. Some bloggers, don't reveal personal information about themselves, some do. I don't know about everyone else, but I think human nature makes it so that, when reading a person's blog...anything that isn't written, any information that isn't given...is supplied by ones own mind. Like reading a book...you don't know what the character looks like..but you get a picture in your mind.
So what causes us to be so let down, when a blogger no longer fits into our pre-determined mold for them? What makes us take it so personally?
We only know what they say. We don't know any concrete details about peoples sex lives, love lives, financial situations etc. I could have a great husband....and we might never have sex. I could have a great house, and expensive food...but a ton of credit card debt. You wouldn't know....because I don't tell you.

Food:
Um Yeah....food is such a complex issue for some of us. But, Kelly made an excellent point, for some people, it doesn't matter if their food is over processed and filled to high heaven with HCFS...does it make them full? Does it mean that tonight they don't have to dig through the garbage can for someones trash? Then it works. I realize that my health is important, but I feel so greatful for being in the position...that I get to buy the two dollar loaf of bread that is local and doesn't have HCFS in it. And maybe I could learn something from people who truly eat for survival. and maybe a little guilty for forgetting that bigger things happen in the world then when I get my next snack.

I feel like this is a way bigger subject that i could really delve into.

Obesity:
Also a large issue (oh I am sooo punny!), Is it impossible for an obese person to be starving? Also, is it impossible for an obese person to be poor? I know in "the olden days" being fat meant you were rich, and that you had money for good food. I think it is possible for a person to be fat and being in a position that they can't afford food. They probably also can't afford the gym. They may or may not work. I'll be honest.....the whole "fat" and "obese" correlation insults me a little bit. According to society, I am fat, and I am morbidly obese if we look at my BMI (don't even get me started on that bullshit). I also eat mostly whole grains, one sandwhich at a time, lean proteins and healthy fats. I work out 3-5 times a week, and have an active lifestyle. I will always be overweight according to the BMI, does that mean that if my life were to suddenly change, and I found my self needing to eat at a soup kitchen...that I don't need the food as much as the next person? I don't think so. I would like to add that I COMPLETELY recognize that the insult I felt, was due to my own history and issues with the words; fat, obese, epidemic etc. And that Kath has nothing to do with how i feel about that.

Now...for being politically correct, or whatever on one OWN blog:
Guess what? This is my blog and I get to say whatever I want. And guess what? If you had your own blog you could get to say whatever YOU want. No matter how inane or asanine that I think it is.
Before I worked in the job that i have now, I worked as an Americorp Member at the University of Idaho Women's Center. If you ever want a lesson in Inclusive Language...work with feminists. I'm a feminist too....just to throw that out there.
There are all sorts of things that are insulting to all sorts of people. Judging someone who eats in a soup kitchen for how many sandwhiches they eat is no different than calling your friend "Gay" for doing something stupid, or calling your brother "retarded" for falling off his bar stool. It's no different than judging the girl on the treadmill who can't run very far. Or judging the person at wal-mart with 10 kids, paying with foodstamps and saying under your breath "ever heard of birth control?" It's no different than calling someone a "vag" or a "pussy" or a "dick" when they aren't doing what you want. And I can bet, that everyone who dogged on Kath, for making a observation, right or wrong....has made some sort of observation, or judgement, or called someone a name..... so why get up in arms...when Kath said what she did. It's hypocritical.

Now, I do agree that there were bigger things to be learned from the whole incident, the whole comment list.....That we are privileged, that you never know who is reading your blog, that you never know what offends someone, we should all take a minute to think about our selves...and our food, and above all we should remember that bloggers..are people...they may not be people you like, but they have lives and jobs and feelings that are way bigger than the 30 sentences they post everyday about this that or the other.

produce produce everywhere!

So, it's Sunday after noon, and I wanted to post some pictures of the fruits and veggies we bought at the store yesterday. It's the end of the month, our budget is just about used up, but we can't not have our fresh produce for the week!
Yesterday at the grocery store, I wanted to switch things up a little bit so I bought some fruit i normally don't...

The first exciting piece of fruit is the STARFRUIT! I've never had one of these before, and they are a little pricey ($1.28) for one, but my husband convinced me that it was well worth the money. Ha. anyway..i have ot wait for it to ripen..but apparently you just eat these like an apple! Bite into them, or cut them into slice for the pretty star shape. Exciting...i'm trying to be patient while mine ripens! I also got navel oranges and my husband picked out the plums. I don't like plums very much, but they really look pretty in our fruit bowl!

This week, instead of cutting up veggies nightly, I cut up a bunch and put them in a glass bowl with a lid that we got as a wedding present. This is 2 red bell peppers, one or two green peppers, two carrots, and snap peas. We also have cucumbers..but i like to cut those up daily for lunces...they are full of so much water that they make everything else soggy!

And from the top.

Today we had lunch with my in-laws. Well...we always have lunch with my inlaws on Sundays. Now, my in-laws are incredibly sweet sweet good people. The are not so fantastic at health. My Father in law has type two diabetes (that he is not so good about controlling, and my mother in law basically loves every fat condiment known to man, but then again..who doesn't!) anyway...Today after church my sister-in-law informs my husband and I that for lunch today we are swinging by Wendy's, picking up lunch for my inlaws and taking it over to them.

Great..a fast food challenge. When I first started losing weight..I spent a lot of time researching the nutritional values of different fast food places. As we all know, subway has the healthiest, freshest ingredients..but stil isn't that great. So...back to wendys'. I decided on a jr. hamburger and a side salad. My mouth wanted a 1/4 pound single with fries. But...I passed (man, tons of willpower on that one) and had about 5 of my husband's fries. I just looked up the nutritional value and with the few fries, and one chicken nugget I had with my jr. hamburger and side salad (1 tsp vinagrette) My lunch only came to about 400 calories. Pretty low, but I don't feel bogged down by grease..which is nice.

My sister-in-law ordered "the baconator" for my F-in-Law. yeah..I looked up those calories....860! man, so not worth it. I would rather eat two home made patties with six pieces of non fast food bacon for that amount of calories.

Anyway...i'm going to need a snack pretty soon. Wish that Starfruit was ripe!